Tag: travel

  • This Week

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    LIFE

    Ha. What life? Snow cancelled my vacation and kept me in NYC past the end of my work trip. I guess there are worse places to be stranded, but I was so looking forward to skiing, and had carted my gear half way around the northern hemisphere. In the end, it was snowing too much for it to be fun to wonder about (they do not have snow figured out in NYC) so I spent Saturday holed up the hotel catching up on a bunch of writing, venturing outside a couple of blocks for a delicious brunch, an early dinner, and getting some exercise in the hotel gym – which has a great view of the city.

    At least I know quite a few people in NYC, and got to hang out with them – and meet some new people I had previously only spoken to on Twitter.

    Registered for the Be The Eloquent Woman workshop at the start of April, which I’m excited about. And in the middle of April I’m speaking at the Lovelace Colloquium, with some intimidatingly brilliant people – here’s the announcement.

    WORK

    Possibly my most exhausting week ever. Facilitated this three day workshop/design sprint. Got some really positive feedback already, and I’m really happy with a lot of the things that came out of it… but so socially exhausting!

    Now trying to get into more coding, although I always find this switch from uber-social and reactive going back to quiet contemplation hard. I’m also trying to “hack” together a demo, and I’m so bad at hacking, the pull to write production quality and tested code is strong! But after a couple of good nights of sleep, and shutting myself away in my hotel room I did manage to hack together a little demo.

    It’s interesting how completely exhausted that level of social activity left me. And hungry – I was rushing about with barely any time to eat on Tuesday and Wednesday in particular, and when it was all over and I could breath out, I was out for dinner with some friends everything was extra yummy. It felt like it was the first I had really tasted what I was eating in days.

    MEDIA

    Finished All For You by Sheila O’Flanagan, reading Principle-Centered Leadership  by Stephen R. Covey (7 Habits guy), and Bookends by Jane Green.

    Went to see Once, which was amazing – my first ever Broadway show as somehow I never made it to one when I used to come to NYC all the time!

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  • Bali, October 2013

    Bali, October 2013

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    Day 1

    I’m flying Air Garuda – the Indonesian national airline. It’s good, because they actually process your visa in-flight, and at the other end you just walk out the airport. I treat myself to the upgrade ($500 – not too bad) and so once I’ve checked in and queued to pay for the visa my vacation starts in the Quantas lounge. I meet a woman there, who is an entrepreneur based mostly in China. We chat, and she tells me to go do what excites me, something of an inspirational pep talk. I’m grateful for it – my life can seem a bit mad.

    This makes me seriously question my allegiance to Star Alliance – it’s so much nicer than the Air NZ lounge! I have the most delicious smoked salmon with cream cheese on sourdough. Mmm! Mostly I don’t eat fish for ethical reasons (over-fishing, it’s hard to know what’s sustainable and what is not) but smoked salmon is my weakness.

    Business class is lovely, it starts with some amazing red juice – still to find out what kind of juice exactly – which I drink as much as possible of, and they have actual Earl Grey tea. And the food is pretty incredible too. I catch up on some sleep, and read a novel (in my opinion, key feature of vacation is reading a novel a day).

    We land, walk straight through customs, and after a lengthy wait for my bag I’m in arrivals! I buy a sim card – data only – from simPati for 150,000 – I’m confused by the sheer amount on every bill, and discover that 1 = 1000 when talking cash here. My travel agent (the Amazing Mario at Out and About) has arranged for transfers for me, so it’s smooth – there’s a guy with a sign, and after a short wait for the van (the airport is only half built, and they are still using the other car park because the new one is too small and too full) we are on our way! He gave me a set of brochures – I can go quad biking (yes!), horseback riding (yes!) take cooking classes (no) and there are some half day and day tours, and cycling that I am undecided on. There is also lots of yoga in Ubud. Before he leaves I book in to quad bike tomorrow! I’m excited!

    I’m staying at the Hotel Tjampuhan Bali in Ubud, about a 90 minute drive from the airport – it’s great to be back in Asia, I love the vibrancy. On the drive, I notice little statues and fountains in the middle of the highway. It’s so cute! The hotel is a lush tropical paradise set on a hill, and I have my own little hut with an outside balcony that mentally I mark as “place to write”. The hotel is lovely and they great me with more red juice – this time possibly alcoholic, but I’m not sure. I have to find out what this stuff is!

    I book a 150 minute spa treatment, and head for a quick swim before. The pool is not great for laps, but I find myself chatting to a couple and another girl who is there alone – we decide to go to dinner at a restaurant recommended by the couple. Yay!

    The spa is… interesting. I get a massage, facial, body treatment – which comprises of a scrub, but also being covered in yogurt and lying in a bath of flowers. It’s not your prudish western treatment, the woman is actually washing me. I’m not entirely comfortable with this, but opt to go along with things. The room only has three walls, so as I lie on my front, I can look out into lush jungle. And sometimes see passers by… thankfully they never make it up that far. I’m unsure how private the whole experience actually is.

    For dinner, we head to Murnie’s Warung, where I discover my new friend is from a place in Canada near where I used to live! I order the duck (delish), followed by black rice pudding (bit sweet). We have a really nice evening, but I am exhausted.

    Oh so tired. Time for bed!

    Day 2

    I’m supposed to meet the guide at 8am, but he doesn’t show up until 9, at which point I find out I’m not quad-biking in the morning, but instead at 2pm – this does not work with my planned optimisation for my day, and I am Not Happy about that! That he multiple times pointed out that I’m by myself was also an unfortunate sales strategy – I know I’m by myself, thanks for that. Whist waiting for him, I amused myself by booking things with the hotel instead – I think it is a better deal, in all, although they do have a smaller selection. I plan to do a downhill cycle tour (and see a volcano!), white water rafting, and the ballet. I’m also trying to find out when/where I can take yoga classes, a place called the Yoga Barn comes recommended, but sadly they do not seem to answer their phone. I am directed to another a short walk away… only to discover I have just missed the start of their morning class. Urgh, if only the guy had told me… but I will be zen. This is Bali. I’m here to relax.

    It is brutally hot, and this is why I need to get going early – as the heat builds I get more and more lethargic. I lie by the pool and read, then get an early lunch at Murnie’s – this time the sweet and sour pork (meh) followed by the jackfruit fritters and coconut ice-cream (tasty – although just in general too much deep fried there, mistake). I’m still on the quest to find this amazing red juice, and try a papaya juice. It’s mostly delicious but with a weird under taste that I can’t quite make out.

    Quadbiking is nearly an hour away, and my driver is late (a theme emerges), but we get there in time. It’s more expensive than I thought – about $100 total. There’s a huge group of about 20, some couples and two big groups, and I am the only one flying solo. The bikes are not the best – only one brake (I’m sure they build in redundancy there for a reason) and mine twice stalls going up a hill. The second time I end up hauling it up the hill, whilst the dude behind me pushes it up with his. When we’re moving, it’s great – I love the thrill, and once I’ve managed to overtake everyone but the instructor I’m pretty happy. But we spend a lot of time sitting around waiting, heated from the sun above, the engine underneath the seat, and breathing in the gas fumes. I watch the clock tick by on a 15-20 minute pause, and as the numbers increase I watch my chances of making it to the 4pm yoga class disappear.

    I get back to the hotel at 4:03. No yoga for Cate.

    But – I can swim! The pool has kids playing in it though, so I nap whilst I wait for them to go away. Eventually they disappear, and I start swimming. I was so tired that I didn’t think I would make it to stay awake through dinner, but the exercise is energising.

    Bump into the friendly Aussie couple again – they’ve had a lovely walk and some time at a spa, and she brought me back a leaflet – so sweet! I will have to go there.

    Dinner at the hotel – surprise appetisers, something like a breadstick and something I would describe as like a tempura’d spinish leaf – odd, but tasty, then rendang curry with beef and a virgin pina colada. Delish.

    I’m exhausted, so head for another early night. Tomorrow, I’m going horse riding!

    Day 3

    I sleep… weirdly. Woken in the night by what sounds like a storm? And another thing that is maybe (hopefully) a gecko running around on the walls.

    Anyway, I’m up in loads of time for riding, and I can linger over the hotel breakfast – which is great. A chef to cook eggs however you’d like them, fresh orange and pineapple juice, fruit, and banana crepes. (Also, something like congee, and noodles etc).

    My driver picks me up and we head to the riding place, which is about an hour away. I’m given a horse named Jenny. She is much smaller than the horses I’ve ridden in Europe and Canada – and that makes it a somewhat different experience! I actually have to work to grip her sides with my legs. My instructor checks that I can stop, and turn right… and off we go.

    We go down a small road, until we get to a beach – the sand is black, volcanic maybe? It’s very beautiful. I want to go faster, and Jenny goes straight into a canter – it surprises me and I find myself being thrown about! My instructor tells me to lean back, which helps, and asks me if I’m scared (of course I say no, there was a moment when I realised my centre of gravity was far forward than it should be…)

    We stop at a beachside cafe after about 30 minutes, and I field the obligatory questions – where is my husband? Boyfriend? I don’t love this line of questioning. We move on to the extravagant compliments section – I have a lovely smile apparently, and I look so young! He thought I must be 20! Do men travelling alone get this? It’s not just here, or other Asian countries… a guy helping me with my luggage at Toronto Airport when I moved away from Canada wished me luck finding a husband in Sydney. Because, you know, I said I was going there for work.

    Anyway, we ride back along the beach, and one again we “run” – this horse does not like to trot, apparently! Compare and contrast to the horse-shaped sofa I rode in Canada last time, that made it to a trot twice, for no more than 6 steps at a time. It’s fun, though, and I feel like I’m doing better. But we are back at the stables after an hour, and our time is over.

    I’m fine travelling alone, but I’d like to be alone, not with some kind of spectre of the husband/boyfriend who isn’t with me. Maybe I would find it funny if I were happily single, or if I could claim a boyfriend back home, but in this uncomfortable nebulous area somewhere between best friends and a real relationship I just don’t know what to say. Maybe I should buy a fake wedding ring and make up stories.

    Back at the hotel, I clean myself up a bit and head to the pool. It’s blissfully empty, but the sun is so hot my feet burn on the tiles. This time I’m trying the spring water pool, although I don’t notice much difference – other than the lack of shade. It’s deserted though, which suits me.

    I go for lunch at Bridges – it’s supposedly more expensive but not by much, and the food is great. I get some kind of beef in a crepe, and a mushroom and asparagus soup, followed by some kind of balinese desert – I don’t know what it is made of, the waitress tells me “a leaf of a root”, it has a thin strip of chocolate in it, and comes with coconut sorbet. So lovely.

    I chill out at the hotel for a while, and then drag myself out for the 4pm yoga class (I have a goal of 5 whilst I am here) only to discover that it is Saturday today, and there is no such class. Back to my cool sanctuary to finish my novel and relax.

    It’s nice to take a trip of this length, but especially with the intermittent and terrible internet (maybe worse because of it?) I’m starting to get too much in my head about things. I’m conscious that there’s plenty of time to think and I need to keep myself occupied – not lying in bed half asleep when I wake up at 5am, but doing something until breakfast. I was hoping to recharge and feel more creative, but it’s heading towards angst instead. I feel like I should write… but I have nothing to say. Luckily I have a bunch of notes to type up… I’ll start with those and see.

    I write for a while, and then go to bed early – I aim to stay awake until 8pm, but at 7pm I give up and sleep. Ha, what a glamorous and partying life I lead.

    Day 4

    I wake up intermittently through the night and realise… I have a cold and sore throat. I try to tell myself that this is a sign I’m relaxed! But I was sick for about 3 weeks and that only ended a month ago – so not fair! Still, I am free to give in to it, so I push back my white water rafting trip, linger over breakfast drinking tea, and go back to bed with a throat lozenge, a box of tissues, and my kindle. I finish my novel, read a second one, and then force myself to go out for a bit.

    I head into Ubud, meaning to try this highly rated BBQ place Foursquare has recommended, only to discover that is in the wrong direction. Instead, I go to Cafe Lotus. I have lamb skewers (OK), and lime and coconut tart (yummy!) and copious amounts of tea.

    I wonder through Ubud for a while, heading for a pharmacy to buy anti-histamines. There are so many shops with cute dresses in, and locally made jewellry, but I’m not in the mood right now – I will come back before I leave, maybe later in the day when it is cooler. Everywhere there are men shouting “taxi taxi” at me – tourism is clearly the major industry here, which I don’t really like – I don’t recall when I was last somewhere like this. Maybe in Yangshuo, years ago?

    Back in the cool of the hotel I have a virgin pina colada (not as good as the other day, too much ice) and more tea… then head back to my room to chill out (finish my 3rd novel of the day, write some more) and get an early night. I’m feeling better after a day doing nothing and I don’t want to miss out on cycling tomorrow!

    Today, the only conversation I’ve had is goodbyes with the friendly Aussie couple at breakfast. I’m worried about 6 more days of this, will it be good for me as I thought it would? – I’m not feeling as inspired, or as peaceful as I hoped. My recent solo trips have been to cities, which are less stressful, and more intellectually stimulating. I’m not sure I know how to be here, just trying to hit some quotas of novels read, things written, and physical activity. On the up side, no-one has asked me where my husband is today.

    Day 5

    Today I am going biking – about $40! So after the usual delicious breakfast I’m picked up and we drive for about an hour, stopping on the way to taste a variety of teas and coffees (no coffee for me though) and have the option to buy Luwak coffee – part of the process of which is the coffee being eaten by this small fluffy animal, passing through it’s digestive system whole, and then being extracted from it’s poo. Hmm! Also on the route, we drive past a cobra – eek! Then we stop for some lukewarm fried banana, and finally we are on our bikes and off we go.

    It’s downhill pretty much all the way, and I get off to a wobbly start – I don’t remember the last time I was on a bike that wasn’t a spin bike. Probably the time I dislocated my kneecap, actually. Aiii! Our guide asks me where I live, and I explain that I’m currently of no fixed address, and he observes that I must not be married, as I am so free. Married women are less free, they have to mind their babies.

    He’s very sweet though, and on the way we stop and see his family home, and his grandmother, sisters, wife, and baby (he is just 23!). It’s a traditional Balinese home, so there is the temple, the building for making offerings – where his grandmother sits making their offerings, possibly for the festival the following day (Galungan). Then there is the building for the most senior family members – in this case, his grandmother, and another building for everyone else. He tells us that property gets passed to the youngest here, and they want sons, as the sons will look after them when they are old. He is happy to have a son, as he doesn’t have to worry anymore!

    After a shaky start, I overtake everyone and there is no way I will be gripping the brakes for hours, so I freewheel (ok, sometimes pedel) downhill, stopping at intersections of when I get really far ahead. Once I’ve got going, it’s kind of like skiing, you focus on the path ahead, things coming at you, and avoid obstacles. I had no idea downhill biking was so fun! I’m probably missing out on the view though – it’s one of those occasions when I really wish I had Google Glass. We go through the countryside, past houses, through the town, and even along a narrow path through a paddy field. Really lovely. Nice to see normal life along the way – including small children (one looked 10, if that) driving scooters. Apparently this is because there is no public transport here, and so they have to do this to get to school.

    We do the 3 hour ride in 2, which might be my fault. And at the bottom we have delicious lunch – satay (no peanuts for me), rice and noodles.

    Back at the hotel, I chill out for a bit and then try to make the 4pm Yoga class. Once again I am thwarted – this time it is randomly cancelled. I hang out at a cafe next door with virgin pina colada and mandarin juice instead.

    I’m determined that today will be the day that I try a place called Naughty Nuri’s, which is a really highly rated restaurant nearby that FourSquare tells me one of my friends has already been to. However it’s not in central Ubud where the hotel shuttle drops guests. I’m told a cab just to go there will cost me $25 – no wonder there are men everywhere shouting “TAXI” if that’s the going rate for a mile or so up the road!

    I decide to walk instead, but the location on maps is a little off and I walk past it, then think I’ve found it but I have in fact wondered into someone’s house (open plan living!) – thankfully there’s no dog, and the woman is kind and gives me directions! I follow them, and maps on my phone, only to realise that I’ve walked down the side of someone’s house, past their garden, and into and around a paddy field. Paddy fields are wet, with a ridge of grass around them, and it’s not been terribly easy making my way along. I edge towards the closest exit – something that looks like a stone gate, only it’s not, it’s a wall. In a fit of desperation, I climb over the wall, into someone else’s garden, and walk along the side of their house where a man and his sons (I assume) are assembling the “Penjor” – which all houses put up for the Galungan festival. Thankfully these people whose privacy I have invaded are also very kind, and give me directions, and I set off once again to find that the restaurant is just on the side of the road, and I had walked straight past it… about 30 minutes previously. However despite all my adventures getting there, as I’m not feeling very well, I decide that after all that I don’t want to eat dinner at all – and high-tail it back to the hotel and get an early night.

    Day 6

    Today is The Day – I’m going to (finally) take a yoga class. After breakfast I drag myself away, and make it up the hill to the yoga studio just before it starts.

    I had forgotten how much I hate doing yoga. The ground is so hard, and whilst most of the time my knee and shoulder injuries are fine, I really feel them when holding poses, or kneeling on the ground, or sitting cross legged. We chant “Om…” and also much longer, more complicated things, and there is a bunch of spiritual nonsense “mother earth” “father sky” etc etc. I’m hating every minute of it, but also recognising how good it is for me – if I could make yoga a habit, what might that change about things?

    We do 30 minutes of chanting along with some talk of Galungan then one hour of yoga, and then 30 minutes of relaxation. I don’t know what happens during the relaxation – maybe I even fall asleep? But after the class I do feel more relaxed than I have felt in a long time, possibly ever if the use of prescription medication is discounted. It’s amazing. I feel amazing. I have to make yoga more of a habit.

    I have lunch at Bridges which is again incredible – I opt for the tapas tasting (3 small portions of your choice of 3 dishes) and then the same for desert (only the desert choices are fixed – cointrau chocolate mouse, lemon pavlova, creme brûlée) and then linger with a pot of tea and many refills until I’m finally feeling rehydrated after the previous days exertions and not being well. Once lunch is settled, I have a long swim – well, for the tiny pool, and then go into town for the ballet.

    I’m there a little early, I meant to get there sooner but my novel was gripping and I decided to swim for longer. But I’m distracted by a shop, and buy a cute dress in two colours, and two scarves. I pick up my ticket for the ballet, but as I’m short on time just have dinner across the road at Coco Bistro – food is a distinctly meh, and it takes forever for me to get the bill. So I’m one of the last people to get a seat in the hall, right at the back, with limited view.

    Clearly the right order would have been – food (somewhere nicer), then ticket, then take seat 15 minutes before start. Shop another day.

    I can see most of what’s going on, and whilst I do contemplate leaving early, the ticket was less than $10, after all (I say ticket, it is in fact a leaflet). For a while I’m convinced I’m at the wrong thing – this bears no resemblance to ballet (not that I can see anyone’s feet, but still), the main thing is elaborate hand movements. I come round to it though, I love the music, and also start to appreciate the dancing. I have no idea of the story line though, although it does seem quite violent at times, in the end the women seem to win – always good! The women are in beautiful traditional dress, and the men wear elaborate and crazy costumes, including one that reminds me of a super mario character. I’m pretty sure it wasn’t ballet though, but something else and the guy at the hotel had got the day wrong.

    Show over, I get a cooled chocolate at Casa Luna whilst I wait for the hotel shuttle. They have comparatively fast wifi too, which is nice.

    Back to the hotel, still with the post-yoga high. Wow!

    Day 7

    Today is Galungan but I’m not wondering around watching the festivities… I’m headed white water rafting! I was picked up at 9:30, and returned at about 4:30, so it’s pretty long, and cost about $100 (another guy said he got it for $60, booking through different people. Huh.)

    There are a ton of people there, and we all leave together in one go. Four people in each boat, plus a guide. It’s pretty easy going as the current is strong – good, since the others in my boat are not, I think, particularly sporty! The guide is doing most of the work, and sounds a little angry.

    It’s amazing – the water is so clear, and everything is so beautiful. I wish I had a Go Pro (Amazon) to record it. We go down a 4m drop – I’m in the front, sat down in the base of the boat with my feet sticking out. It’s amazing! So fun1

    There are some obnoxious Brits (could they be drunk at 11am? Or – more terrifying – are they always like this?) splashing people and pretending they are boarding the boat – they reach ours and pull at it, and one of them grabs me, and I say “don’t touch me” – which of course gets me critiqued for a sense of humour failure. Later one of them is telling me tol “have a good time, smile” etc – urgh, I am! I just don’t like being touched, yelled at, or splashed by random men. He asks the guy sitting next to me if he’s my husband – so this is not a Balinese thing. The guy tells them I’m not his wife, and that just don’t like them, which I find funny! He’s Korean, and some Australians had made a terrible impression on him, so as these guys are also obnoxious he thinks they must be Australian too. I tell him they are not Australian, but just “jerks” – he seems very taken with this word, and repeats it a bunch. I hope he doesn’t use it in the wrong place and get into trouble!

    I also chat to two lovely girls from Beijing who I rode in the shuttle with. They are so cute and lovely! One of them is an entrepreneur, and the other a designer, and this is their first time out of China aside from Hong Kong.

    So close to the end, their boat runs into ours, harder than I thought and taken my surprise I fall in! Our guide rushes to rescue me and everyone pulls me into the boat. They are all so sweet. I’m fine, just a little surprised – it was actually quite nice, falling in. The water is lovely! Cool, but not cold. I tip our guide well (about $10) for his hard work (our boat was a bit inept I think) and rapid rescue (I was fine, but if I hadn’t been I would have really appreciated it!) after which he is extremely happy, and keeps calling me “honey”.

    All in all – white water rafting, most fun thing that I did. I wonder if I can go again, but especially with the long drive it eats up so much time. I love that kind of outdoors activity, I’ve not been doing enough of them of late – more cultural activities, less adventurous ones! I should rebalance that.

    Aside – one of the girls from biking lives in Bali, and was explaining that the guides make very little money. So it’s nice to tip them!

    The food at the end is welcome, but kind of cold, and so I don’t eat anything and I’m keen to get back to the hotel. It’s about an hours drive back, and so I have the driver drop me at Naughty Nuris – some exact calculations tell me that I can have some hot food, rehydrate, and get in the pool for 630 and then have an early night. Naughty Nuri’s is great – I get the highly recommended ribs, and a rice dish which I cover liberally with this sweet soy sauce that I was introduced to on the bike tour. Yummy! The deserts don’t really appeal though, so I head to Bridges for a full size pavlova (oohh so delish) and to rehydrate with virgin pina colada, more sprite, and tea.

    It’s dark when I get back to the hotel, but the pool is theoretically still open. I go first to the spring water pool, but it’s too dark – and after one of the grounds people pointing out a tiny snake to me I’m somewhat freaked out by how deserted it is. So I go to the other one, only to find it’s been shut early and the guy is adding chlorine to it “only a little bit” – but it’s a bad idea to swim in it. Determined, I go back to the spring water one, saying I’ll just do a few laps… but on the way a frog jumps past me, I initially panic – snake! Thankful when I see it hopping and know it’s a frog… but that’s it, I’m not swimming in the dark with the local wildlife… I’m going to chill out in my cabin, write, and go to bed!

    Day 8

    Morning Yoga! I don’t enjoy it whilst it is happening, but I look forward to the post-yoga high… which does not disappoint. I’m trying to explore a little more, and so I go to the top rated nearby restaurant on foursquare for lunch – Indus. I have some extremely spicy noodles, and a coconut panacotta for desert. It is really good.

    After I’ve chilled out for a while, and been for a swim, I’m trying to go to the Karsa Spa the lovely Aussie couple recommended to me. It’s supposed to be a nice 30 minute walk away, and I’m keen for the exercise. However they don’t answer the phone, so instead the concierge recommends the nearby Sedona Spa where I get a pedi (with flowers!) and a massage, for less than $20 – bliss. Although during the massage it hits me that I’m really about to leave Sydney – and it’s really sad. There’s so much of my life there that is amazing, butI know it is the right decision. I’m glad I’ve had this time to relax and… maybe grieve is the right word? For everything I’ve loved about living there.

    Afterwards I make the 30 minute walk into Ubud, to Cafe Wayan – apparently the same one as in Eat Pray Love (Amazon). Along the way I explore some of the shops and pick up a couple of scarves, belts, and bracelets. Cafe Wayan is beautiful, and I love the layout. I can see it being romantic, but the secluded corners also mean it’s a fine place to come alone. I have the Indonesian tasting plate, and death by chocolate – so delicious – I’m glad of the 30 minutes walk back to the hotel after that! It would be hard to sleep otherwise! Although it is scarier after dark, there are 6ft holes in the sidewalk, imperfectly covered.

    Day 9

    My last full day in Bali, and I start with a yoga class. This one, I actually enjoy – I guess it is getting easier, and it helps that the teacher gives me a different position than the cross legged for sitting (too uncomfortable since I popped my kneecap). The 30 minute chanting and stillness at the start has been the hardest part for me, the discomfort, and also just… I’m not a very still person.

    Figuring out what I want to do today, I’ve been tempted to run around trying to see things, maybe get in another activity (downhill biking?) but instead decide to do what I came to Bali to do – relax. So I have lunch at the amazing Bridges, and chill out and finish my novel, swim for a while, and then go back for a second class (relaxation yoga, so thankfully it’s not too hard!), and then back to Indus for dinner.

    I’m so glad this is how I spent my last day in Bali. I do feel more relaxed, and recharged, and after worrying that I was feeling less rather than more creative – I’ve barely written anything bar this day-by-day journal whilst I’ve been here – it’s starting to come back, and I’m having some ideas for things to write and do. The lack of internet has bothered me less than I thought it would, but it’s still incredibly frustrating. I’ve been trying to request a points upgrade for my flight to London, and even aside from the terrible experience that is the Aeroplan website, the slowness of the connection (3G and Wifi) is making it even more difficult.

    Day 10

    Start my day with a Yoga class – my last in beautiful Bali, this trip anyway. And then head to Bridges one last time – it’s far and away the best place I’ve eaten here.

    I booked into the spa with the tour guide at the start of the week, thinking it was a good way to chill out in the afternoon before my flight. Actually, I would have had a better time at the simple one down the road instead. This one is massively overpriced – costs me well over $100, even after all the “discounts” – compare that to my $20 afternoon a few days previously. The experience starts with payment up-front, and forms asking if you have ever complained, and saying people who make trouble not welcome. It makes me uncomfortable. Because they were late and the admin time, I don’t get the full time and end up cutting the flower bath short, but that’s OK. The therapist is really sweet, but I wouldn’t go back there.

    Check out and ride to airport. The guide who accompanies me tells me about Silence day (Nyepi) – no food, no going out, only meditating. Even the airport is closed. Tourists have to stay in their hotel. I bet some tourists here over that period get a shock!

    He also tells me about the social structure in Bali, and dating – boys pay for everything. And that each village has 3 temples.

    Airport is quite the experience. First I queue for security before check in, and then check in. Then pay exit tax. Then regular security. Then immigration! Finally through – although the lounge is temporary. At least the seat on the plane is comfortable.

    Mario at Out and About Travel in Sydney organised this trip for me.

  • This Week

    This Week

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    LIFE

    So little time for life when on a business trip! Got to hang out with a couple of friends in Seattle, got kicked out of a bar with one of them… for not carrying my passport. We’d ordered green tea and water, and mac and cheese. Rocknroll! Caught up with a couple more on video chat, and got quite a bit of writing done on various planes. Ended up in NYC for Saturday night, having dinner with a work-friend from Sydney, so that was cool! And my friend from London flew out to hang out with me and see NYC.

    Did manage to get some cardio in 4 times which is more than I usually manage on work trips, and is so helpful for keeping my sanity.

    Was happy to discover how easy it is to change a domestic flight – I couldn’t face the redeye on Friday night (so exhausted, never really made it to west-coast time) and they let me push it back to the following morning, no charge. Meanwhile I checked in to a nearby hotel for some actual sleep!

    WORK

    Even more hectic than last week! Gave a talk. So many meetings – west coast is an easier timezone for catching up with people (including one of my mentors) and I was prepping like crazy for next week. Took some UX courses too, which were really interesting – and helpful! Schedule being so packed meant I didn’t spend as much time with the team as I wanted, but I’ll be back soon. Also schedule being so packed people said my calendar was stressful to them (eek, I never wanted to be that person) and one of my friends said I sounded like a product manager. Noooooo!

    I really don’t want to be a PM, but it’s good to have actual work challenges (even if it’s “be firm about priorities”, “don’t be a PM”), rather than the nebulous and depressing one of “women are treated badly in this industry and frankly I can’t take it any more”. And what I’m doing is really interesting – currently thinking a lot about personas, user-centric design, usage patterns on mobile.

    MEDIA

    Finished  The Charisma Myth! Finally. And read Self-Promotion for Introverts. Now re-reading All For You by Sheila O’Flanagan – I should really go to Dublin, I read so many books that are set there.

    Finished Jane by Design which is cute, some light relief, sad they didn’t renew it for another season. Also watching Big Bang Theory Season 7, and err… Keeping up With the Kardashians Season 6 (bought when I discovered that half the shows I watched weren’t available on UK iTunes, taking recommendations for new things to watch). Been listening to whatever is playing on my iPhone.

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  • US October 2013 (MN and CA)

    US October 2013 (MN and CA)

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    Mostly a work trip, so little time to see anything. I was in Minneapolis for GHC, which is always amazing, and got to catch up with a bunch of people – including two guys I worked with during the summers I spent there! I stayed at the Crowne Plaza (I like their beds). I got sandwiches from Potbelly’s – I loved their milkshakes when I lived in MN. Ended up at a few restaurants, but nothing was really special.

    It was weird being back in MN. This was the first place I went to in the US, or even in North America, and since then I’ve spent a lot of time in NYC, California, and of course lived in Canada. Things seemed sometimes familiar but I didn’t really remember much, both summers I was out of downtown although I spent most of my weekends in the city. One of my friends got mugged – in broad daylight – which was horrible. I did manage to make a brief stop at the Walker Art Centre, which was disappointing (large parts of it were closed) although I did find some cool locally made jewellery in the gift shop. And of course we went out to the Mall of America, which was the 4th place I ever went to in America – after two airports and the hotel (my luggage hadn’t made it).

    Then on to California, MTV and SF. No time to see art, SF MOMA was closed otherwise I might have made time to pop in to see the mobils. I spent time at Programming Languages I’ve Been Meaning To Try But Haven’t Got Around To Yet (PLIBMTTBHGATY for short) which was fun, and hung out with friends. I stayed at the Hilton Garden Inn, which is where I usually stay in MTV, and at the Orchard Hotel in SF, which was OK – little old fashioned. Foodwise SF was better, delicious Chinese food at R&G lounge, and sushi and Asian Fusion at Chaya Brasserie.

  • Strategies for Coping With Jetlag

    Strategies for Coping With Jetlag

    Sleeping Hawaiian Monk Seal
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    Arrive and go to bed

    I like to time my (long) flights so that I get off the plane, get to where I’m staying, and immediately go to sleep, “early” (yes, I am a wonderful, social houseguest, ha). Hopefully, this has me waking up at 5 or 6am, having had at least 7 hours of sleep, ready to take on the day. I think this helps reset my body clock, and if I’ve got a good amount of sleep I won’t want to nap until at least mid-afternoon.

    If I can’t, especially when I take a redeye, my goal is to stay awake until 7pm. 7pm feels manageable, and knowing that bed is not an option until then I’ll find things to do, and sometimes I’ll even make it a little later. Experimentation has led me to the discovery that for me a 7pm bedtime can help me lead some pretence of a normal life, rather than that of a weird, nocturnal creature that wakes up at 2am. That one was great for a couple of days of productivity and then started to get really lonely!

    Daylight. Daylight. Daylight.

    Jetlag is your body clock being at a different time than whenever you happen to be. Daylight is a strong message to your body clock that no, this is not actually nighttime.

    No naps

    Napping on planes is encouraged, it passes the time, and I find it makes it slightly easier to function on landing, and no worse to sleep at bedtime. However once I’m off the plane, I have a very strict no-napping rule. It is so easy for a nap to turn into too much sleep, and derail my days. If I lie down for a nap, I know that I’m unlikely to have the willpower to get up again.

    Be hungry

    Being hungry helps reset your body clock; are some examples of fasting to help reset jetlag. I find eating an early dinner (more of a late lunch) and then going to bed slightly hungry works well. By morning, I’m really hungry, I sleep a little longer because of it, and I’m motivated to get up and go to breakfast.

    Eat lots of breakfast

    Not eating and sleeping slows down your metabolism, but the morning is when I want to jump start it again, so breakfast is even more important than it is usually. Also, if it’s a complete day-night switch, it can be the only meal I really get hungry for and enjoy.

    Move

    After one horrible flight, the long Vancouver-Sydney one, in economy, where we were delayed to look for a boat lost at sea (yes, really) I felt so terrible, I knew if I even sat down I would pass out. Any kind of work was out of the question, and I was too spaced out to wonder around. I went to the gym (with my iPad and a favourite TV show) and pretty much propped myself up on the cross trainer, and somehow kept moving for a few hours. I made it to 7pm, and was able to function the next day.

    Same as eating breakfast, moving gets my metabolism going, letting my body clock know that it’s not actually sleeping time! A bit more animated than that particular example will get endorphins going. It’s hard to sleep immediately after working out, and when I’m trying to stay awake that can work to my advantage.

    Rehydrate

    Everyone knows, planes are super dehydrating, and being dehydrated is bad for basically everything. So I drink lots of water, and tea.

  • Melbourne, August/September 2013

    Melbourne, August/September 2013

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    September is always a stressful time of year at work, and in addition it turned out to be my last month in Sydney, so two friends and I went off to Melbourne for a fabulous girly weekend before all the craziness, featuring lots of delicious food, and an inordinate amount of art.

    We stayed at the Crown Metropol, which was nice and spacious enough for the three of us to share a room, and has a gorgeous pool as well. Great location too, and everywhere we went was in walking distance. Our room did have one of those odd bathrooms which isn’t entirely enclosed, which was a bit weird! But it afforded much more privacy than the Standard in NYC, at least!

    The food in Melbourne is amazing, and it’s so much cheaper than Sydney. We had brunch at two amazing places, The Hardware Société and Dead Man Expresso, which had super weird and delicious donuts – I called the raspberry lychee which was amazing, whilst my friends were more adventurous for that early in the morning, and split the chocolate tabaco and the maple bacon. We had some tasty sushi but the culinary highlight of the trip has to be Burch and Purchese and their divine deserts.

    We found a cute little market, selling artisan products, behind a coffee shop, and went on the Old Melbourne Jail tour where they lock you in a cell and yell at you, but left early because the guy in charge was being really offensive, completely ignoring the socio-economic factors of criminal behaviour.

    Our art explorations were much more successful. We checked out some smaller niche places, including the fantastically named Utopian Slumps, the Diane Siinger gallery, and the Australian Centre for Contemporary Art, which is smaller than you would think. The highlight was the National Gallery of Victoria. The gorgeous water feature outside, the awesome floating bowls in the lobby, the awesome stag made from shiny baubles, and the Monet exhibit, which was beautiful. There was also a cool installation featuring two fans and some magnetic tape, which my friend and I sat and stared at for ages.

    We took a wonder through the botanical gardens, beautiful even in winter. I could see why people prefer Melbourne to Sydney. It’s not as beautiful a city, but I can see it being a more fun place to live in some ways.

    Mario at Out and About Travel in Sydney organised this trip for us.

  • Skiing in Queenstown, August 2013

    Skiing in Queenstown, August 2013

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    All too short weekend of skiing in Queenstown! We skied at Cadrona (terrible visibility, but pretty nice conditions otherwise), Remarkables (nice, I got a ski lesson which was really good), and I went solo to Coronet (too icy) because the boys were too tired.

    I’ve wanted to ski in New Zealand for as long as I can remember, part of my goal to ski on every content. It’s different from resorts I’ve been to in Europe, and even Japan – no ski in ski out, but drives of 30 minutes to over an hour. On the up side, Queenstown felt more like a small town than a resort, and there were some cool arty shops that I really liked. But still, I much prefer rolling out of bed and onto the hill!

    New Zealand was, as ever, stunning, and having finally discovered the panorama feature on the iPhone camera, I took a bunch.

  • Tokyo, August 2013

    Tokyo, August 2013

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    I had had a couple, all too brief days in Tokyo on my way back from North Korea. I hadn’t been to Tokyo for a while (since 2009), and I was excited to see it again, although note to self, it’s a short amount of time to be there considering how long it takes to get downtown from the airport (an hour going through customs, then a long wait to buy a train ticket, then at least another hour on the train, then a short cab ride to the hotel).

    I stayed at the Citidines hotel in Shinjuku. Good location, I could see a good amount of Tokyo walking, which I like (better for exercise, and exploring, and public transport in Tokyo is baffling. A system rivalling the London Underground in size, and with different operators and tickets). With the little time I have, I’m happy to constrain myself to that area, and after the constrains and so much time on busses in North Korea, it’s nice to wonder freely.

    I don’t have much time that evening, and I’m tired and still slightly under the weather, so I just get some dinner at the Brooklyn Parlour (nice enough) and have a bit of a wonder.

    I meet up with Narelle the following day, and she takes me to a fantastic shopping mall in Harajuku (the fashion district), La Foret. Some of my favourite accessories come from my last trip to Japan, so I’m keen to explore, although not expecting the clothes to fit me. Surprisingly, I find a ton of clothes that look great on me, and buy quite a few dresses, including one that I adore in 3 colours (grey, turquoise, and brown). I also find a cool bag, a belt, and head to the Nike store to see if there are some cute and colourful sneakers. I find some pink ones that I like, but they are mens sizes and don’t come small enough to actually fit me. Disappointing! I also stockpile socks, for me and a friend who also adores socks.

    We stop briefly for a snack at an amazing dumpling restaurant, where I discover some kind of miso paste, that is amazing and unexpected, as I don’t like miso soup. Later on, I head to an electronics store to buy headphones (totally normal to buy 4 pairs of headphones when in Japan, am I right?), and cute phone covers. Sadly they don’t have anything for my Nexus 4 (isn’t available in Japan), but the selection of iPhone covers blows my mind. I’m tempted, but stick to the sturdy ones, as I’m prone to dropping things. I like the speck covers (Amazon), so I buy another one in purple.

    My flight leaves the following day, but late enough that I have some time to explore, so I head to the National Museum of Modern art. It’s a nice walk, I appreciate the attention to detail of Japanese culture. Where the sidewalk is repaired with tarmac, it’s exactly lined up alongside the paved tiles. The museum contains some beautiful pieces, and I stay longer than intended, meaning there is no time to explore the nearby park before I need to head back to the hotel. I hadn’t allowed time for eating, or getting lost, but the sushi place I found nearby was tasty, and inexpensive. I eat more sushi at the airport, do a little more accessories shopping (gorgeous belts!) and stockpile the divine Royce chocolate before flying back to Sydney, via Singapore.

    Mario at Out and About Travel in Sydney organised this trip for me.

  • Travel Packing List

    Travel Packing List

    Traveling by Hot Air
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    I’ve flitted about a lot this year, and last, and as a result I’ve accumulated some things and strategies for packing, including outfits that I designate at “plane outfits”. A sign I’m over-thinking things? Possibly. But in case it’s useful, I’m sharing it here (most links Amazon).

    Carry-On

    • iPad – no need to fear misjudging the timing and landing in the middle of watching something! Also, better battery life than a laptop.
    • Travel blanket – they don’t give these out on shorter flights, and even when they do, it’s nice to have two! Planes often vary in temperatures, so I find a blankets are better than sweaters.
    • Eye mask – they have fun ones at Flight 001, in NYC, SF or Sydney (plus some other locations).
    • Ear plugs
    • Noise cancelling headphones – these Bose ones are pricy but incredible.
    • Facial wipes
    • Hand sanitising wipes
    • Small cloth bag – this is useful for assembling immediate flight needs into just before boarding, then I can stow my main bag above for extra legroom, or if I’m in an emergency exit row seat because I have to. This will be small enough that I can slide it down the side of the seat (usually I get a window seat).
    • For a short flights and trips, I pack this into a small backpack that can double for going hiking etc. I have a Dakine one with an elastic thing on the front that is handy, because I can strap things (jacket/blanket) to the front of it. Pockets for water bottle are good for putting in cellphone/passport when going through the security scanner.

    For longer haul add (in case of delay):

    • Clean set of clothes to change into
    • Sports cropped top, more comfortable than under-wiring.
    • Go to plane outfit (good for sleeping in) – leggings and a dress, hoodie. Although, beware London Heathrow airport where leggings are considered to be pants and they want to search you accordingly.
    • Chargers and power cables (otherwise I pack these in my checked bag).
    • Snacks! In case of sleeping through the meal. Be careful with some countries where it’s necessary to throw out anything uneaten on arrival (Australia and NZ for example).

    Buy at airport:

    • Water!

    Clothes

    • Same outfit for every day, inspired by this article – for 20+ degrees – leggings and dresses, hoodie, for < 20 degrees, 2x jeans, tshirts, hoodies. Everything has to go with everything else, so I don’t need to worry about assembling things.
    • If I’m dressing smarter, I take more variety, but pack outfits rather than items, and everything has to go with the same accessories (accessorising well takes up the most space) – one nice handbag, one casual, one pair of nice shoes, one pair of sneakers or at least flats I can walk longer distances in.
    • If I’m going for 5 days, I pack enough clothes for 6. This allows for one untoward event. Always always have an extra pair of pants, as one of my friends learned when we got on the boat and he threw up on himself.
    • Lightweight down jacketUniqlo had a great deal for <10 degrees. For really cold weather, I have a North Face 800 down jacket which is amazing. These fold up to nothing, and are easy to carry with me in case it gets chilly (in Ontario, for example, after dark the temperature drops very quickly).
    • A hat – if it’s sunny, a baseball cap. If it’s cool, a beanie. Great for hiding plane-hair, and also for keeping my ears warm if it’s windy.
    •  Swim suit – pain of working out when travelling is how much stuff you need. If the hotel has a pool, swimming solves that issue. I love swimming last thing before bed, I find it very relaxing.
    • Sneakers I can walk 10k+ in.
    • Small bag – I have a black Crumpler and a Roots beige leather. I pick one.
    • Sweatpants – nice for lounging around in, or putting on just to go for breakfast.
    • All of my luggage is – deliberately – easy to pick out on the carousel. For shorter trips, I have a pink North Face duffel (up to around a week), for longer trips I love Eastpack suitcases (I have 3), they are super sturdy. For multiple stops, I use the different sides to pack separately, e.g. this is my Minnesota section, and this is my San Francisco section. I’ve found this makes packing for multiple different weathers and kind of events (e.g. conference and retreat in the countryside) less overwhelming.

    Meds and Toiletries

    • Handwash liquid – I’m experimenting with washing clothes as I go to pack lighter. Especially good if doing sports, lightweight running leggings are so quick to wash and dry.
    • Conditioner (small) – sucks to get in late to a poor selection of hotel toiletries and discover I have a choice between dry/unmanageable and dirty hair.
    • Plain, soothing moisturiser (I like Aveeno).
    • Anti-histamines
    • Basic painkillers
    • Post-plane facial necessitiesClinique Moisture Surge mask for overnight, Clinique Turnaround mask for morning.
    • Stuff to help me sleep – useful more for long haul flights (in economy).
    • Anxiety meds, in case of inappropriate touching at the airport or during the flight (at 2x this year, it’s best to be prepared – this is the difference between 80k and 115k, apparently).
    • Sunscreen. For city breaks or winter, SPF in my face moisturiser (Clinique super defence day) and Clinique city block is fine, otherwise I love biotherm.