Category: WISE

  • Real Talk: Women in Tech and Money

    Real Talk: Women in Tech and Money

    This post comes from multiple requests from friends with whom I have talked about leaving tech, and returning to tech, and the way that I started to think about money relating to that. Money is a loaded topic, and I want to be up front here that this is written from a place of financial…

  • The Trouble With Imposters

    The Trouble With Imposters

    Tech culture doles out imposter syndrome on one side, hubris on the other. Originally published in Model View Culture, April 2015. There’s something ironic about the fact that as the deadline for this piece approached, I opened the document and stared blankly at it. Frankly, opening it was progress—I’d been intimidated to come back and…

  • Ambition, Failure, and my Favourite Podcast

    Ambition, Failure, and my Favourite Podcast

    I was listening to the last episode of season 1 of my friend Diana’s podcast “Should We”, and the title of this one is called “Should We Actually Try?” I love Should We because I love Diana, and because there’s something about listening to a podcast where two friends who know each other well are…

  • Big Co. vs Small Co. & Job vs. Career Stability

    Big Co. vs Small Co. & Job vs. Career Stability

    I gave a talk at Self.Conference the other week called “Some Things I’ve Learned About Color”. There’s no video, and I haven’t shared the transcript – I will eventually share this content, because people have connected with it and because I think it’s important. But I’ve yet to figure out how to do that. It’s…

  • On Saying No

    On Saying No

    In the nearly four years I spent at The Conglomerate, I did a lot to try and improve the number of women working in engineering. It’s not clear how much effect this had. But I spent a lot of time and energy on it. Eyes open, I knew this wasn’t always the best career move.…

  • Just Say No to Thankless Emotional Labour: The T-Shirt

    Just Say No to Thankless Emotional Labour: The T-Shirt

    Last year I turned 30 in Santiago. I didn’t like Santiago, and I felt bad about turning 30 – it’s hard when a major life milestone occurs in a time when you are feeling somewhat lost, so I dealt with this in my preferred way – I left. I went to Easter Island, and explored,…

  • The Trouble With Women’s Events

    The Trouble With Women’s Events

    There’s a theme emerging in my backchannel lately, as my girlfriends and I discuss why we aren’t doing certain events. And often, these are events for women. We used to retreat to these events because we weren’t welcome – or safe – anywhere else. But now, we see lots of technical events working really hard…

  • Talking Shine Theory and Other Things on LTOE

    Talking Shine Theory and Other Things on LTOE

    I was on Less Than or Equal in March, something that I’ve actually been engaging in self-promotion of, because I think it’s one of the better things I’ve done. Largely because Aleen (the host) asked such thoughtful questions, and made me feel so comfortable speaking to her. I’ve also discovered that I just love podcasts…

  • That Remote Work Think Piece Has Some Glaring Omissions (A Rant)

    That Remote Work Think Piece Has Some Glaring Omissions (A Rant)

    When I started thinking about what would be next for me after my year of funemployment, remote work weighted pretty highly on my list. People who know me might think that it’s because of my geographical indecision, and yes, that was a consideration, but the biggest factor for me was not actually that. I didn’t want to…