Tag: book

  • Book: The Manager’s Path

    Book: The Manager’s Path

    manager_path_coverI loved my friend Camille‘s book The Manager’s Path (Amazon). When I became a manger, I assembled myself a little course – some books, blogs, newsletters, and made my way through them. I wish I’d had this book to start off with – it’s the overview I needed, but never found until now. I plan to buy it for every newer manager I know. Even for more experienced managers who have already learned some of the lessons in there (1:1s! So important) there’s still more. I particularly appreciated the sections on project planning, managing managers, and strategic leadership.

    I really recommend this book for all engineering managers and tech leads and really encourage everyone else to read it too!

    You might also like the podcast Camille and I recorded.

  • Book: Devotion

    Book: Devotion

    Book cover for DevotionSomeone replied to a Where the Hell is Cate letter recommending I read Devotion (Amazon). Some of it seemed like trite nothings, and the “my love” irritated me. But some pieces of it seemed like profound ideas to meditate on. About love, and acts of love, being present, and showing up doing the work. It’s a short book, but most of all a peaceful book. I needed a peaceful book right now. I think a lot of us do.

  • Book: Leadership and Self-Deception

    Book: Leadership and Self-Deception

    leadership and self deception I read Leadership and Self Deception (Amazon) years ago, several times. It was a book that profoundly changed the way that I think about things, the way that I approach the world. When some conflict arose at work, I saw how the ideas in the book would help, and tried to get everyone on my team to read it.

    This wasn’t entirely successful. Eventually I bought it on Kindle (my physical copy had been a casualty of some international move) and re-read it again myself, so that I could better talk about the ideas in the book to people.

    The main premise of the book is that there is a way of being, “in the box”, where you are just seeing people as they interact with you, and not how they are. Something I wrote after reading it originally,

    Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting out of the Box (Amazon) is another book on leadership – one that I found completely changed the way I look at everything. It’s funny, because in a talk based on that one of my friends was irritated because it seemed like we were being given life advice – but having read the book, it’s true that it is life advice – because (I think) this view of leadership is all about being a nice, humble, respectful, and – crucially – taking ownership of the mistakes you make instead of assigning blame.

    This book shows us a world in which we are all, inside our boxes, desperately trying to justify the actions we take that are less than honorable, less than kind. If you don’t want to be such a person, you can choose to live outside your box. You can see others as humans – with their own motivations, fears, and justifications, rather than as obnoxious objects trying to take you down.

    It was really interesting to return to the ideas that I had internalized as part of my value system, and reflect on how I had lived up to them – and how I hadn’t. It was also interesting to reflect on these things now that I’m at a different point in my career. When I first read it, I was an intern. Now I’m a manager. I want my team to be “out of the box” to each other (and to me!) – I think it’s a pre-requisite for a blameless culture – but how do I create an environment that enables that?

    (Especially if they don’t read the book.)

    We did a discussion around the ideas in it, and it was so helpful – to build that shared language together. I think the most helpful idea in it to discuss as a team, is how conflict can escalate. When two people are looking to justify, neither of them are really listening to each other, and hilarity (not really hilarity) ensues.

    Entertainingly – I steered away from life examples (deliberately) and focused on work examples (code review is a good one!) and afterwards someone observed that it was applicable outside of a work context.

    I’m really glad that I took the time to re-read it, it’s re-enforced my conviction that it’s one of the most helpful books on leadership I’ve ever read. I really recommend it.

  • Book: One Strategy

    Book: One Strategy

    one_strategyOne Strategy (Amazon) is about building the organisation that built Windows 7. It’s a long book that covers a bunch of things. Most notably:

    1. Strategic alignment – how do you get a large organization all on the same page? (Everything else is really a sub-part of this).

    2. Planning, middle out. Leadership sets direction, but not details. Everyone is involved.

    3. Making hard choices – what goes in, what gets left out. You can’t make everyone happy and in part as a result of this criticism of the paths not taken is disproportionate.

    4. Communication. Much of the book is internal blog posts from that period.

    My favourite thing about this book was the intwining of theory and the blog posts from the period. Fascinating – so many business books are all theory, or micro-case-studies. I loved the combination with what it looks like in practise, and the change over time.

    The book inspired me to think about how I want my team aligned, but most of all, how can I be transparent in communicating that?

  • Book: Giving Notice: Why the Best and Brightest are Leaving the Workplace and How You Can Help them Stay

    Book: Giving Notice: Why the Best and Brightest are Leaving the Workplace and How You Can Help them Stay

    giving_noticeGiving Notice: Why the Best and Brightest are Leaving the Workplace and How You Can Help them Stay (Amazon) is an eye opening book. It was written a while ago, about corporate America, but it is very much applicable to the tech industry today and the poor representation of certain groups of people. If I have had reservations about the process being taken, this book confirmed those reservations – and more. I can’t believe people presiding over things have read this book (because I have to think if they had they would have changed their behaviour), and they should have. There’s also a great checklist of questions to help evaluate environment, which is useful for anyone who is job hunting.

    It took me a long time to get to reading this book because I thought I wasn’t ready yet – I found it and bought it shortly after I left, when I was just starting to crawl out of burnout, or perhaps just accepting that I was. I didn’t really want to understand how common and predictable it was yet. I definitely found some of the later chapters hard-going emotionally as a result. But I’m so glad I did read it, and if you have anything to do with creating an inclusive environment at work (so – if you have a job), then I recommend reading it.

    Favourite quotes:

    • “Studies have found that too many individuals spend their careers trying to establish visibility, proving that they can belong, and overcoming stereotyped idea about their lives and work habits. The effort is exhausting and slowly takes its toll.”
    • The chapter on the meaningless of “best of” lists is too full of zingers to quote from. Specifically calls out numerous instances of companies on such lists with on going law suits.
    • “This, of course, becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy: unfair treatment at work significantly impairs a persons ability to engage the very traits that are necessary to get ahead, such as set-confidence, willingness to take risks, and ability to ask for help. In a painful irony, those who are undermined by the chain reaction set off by experiences of exclusion or stereotyping end up acting out the sub-standard performance they were suspected of in the first place…”
    • “Employees will blame bigoted CEOs and management teams, but this is rarely constructive. Is it a conspiracy of the “Old Boys’ Club” strategising to drive out women, people of color, gays and lesbians? No – the sad truth is that none of these groups matters enough to upper management to be the subject of any conspiracy. More often than not, people at the top are oblivious to the problems of their subordinates.”

    Some things I wasn’t as keen on:

    • Early on, she tells a story about being forced to study tech so that she could have input. This was presented like it was a good thing even though she described the amount of work as comparable to getting phd! I felt this was a clear example of other fields being seen as lesser.
    • For PoC and LGBT (not that the T is ever discussed), the problem is stereotyping. For women it’s about babies and having a family (and the perception that must be what you want). I would argue in tech women also experience stereotyping but I am also tired of seeing “balancing family” presented as the main issue for women.
    • Uncritical use of word “meritocracy”, although it also includes the phrase “mirror meritocracy” – example of choosing someone like them, who they feel “comfortable” with.
  • Book: High Output Management

    Book: High Output Management

    High Output Managemenhigh output managementt (Amazon) is a really great, interesting and helpful. It’s a little dated, being written in 1983, and I don’t think it was really updated for the 2015 re-release.

    What I found most useful were the sections about meetings and decision making. What does a good 1:1 look like? How long should it last? The answer he gives is 1 hour, which seems long, but when I sat with that for a while it makes sense and I plan to try it with my team.

    For decision making, he talks about how meetings should be run, who should be in them, and the idea that the meeting owner is not necessarily the most senior person.

    Another really helpful concept is “nudges”, which I internalised as asking the right questions about important topics. The section on performance reviews was also helpful, and gave me a lot of things to think about.

    He uses “he” throughout, which is jarring (I read so few books that do this lately), but many of the stories about actual people were about women. I’d sooner have that than how it was in The Hard Thing About Hard Things, where Horowitz uses “she” throughout but other than his wife only talks about men. Of course best is Hot Seat because Dan uses “she” throughout and tells stories about women.

    Towards the end of the book I started to appreciate it as it explains various processes at Google (and other SV tech companies), which took Intel as a model. There are certain things that I came to understand the theory of, even though they were badly applied. For example the distain for external training. When it comes to training people on processes within a company (e.g. career development), it makes sense. When it comes to general things like public speaking or “unconscious bias”… well maybe not so much. There were other things about interviewing, and that being a bit more combative, that I feel like it explained the root of. The way of interviewing started with blunt… and has in places progressed to mean.

    All in all I got a lot out of reading it, and definitely recommend it. If you’re a manager, it’s an excellent resource and starting point, if you’re trying to understand the system in which you operate, it’s also helpful.

  • Book: The Hard Thing About Hard Things

    Book: The Hard Thing About Hard Things

    htahtI really, really enjoyed The Hard Thing About Hard Things: Building a Business When There Are No Easy Answers (Amazon). So much so that I read the whole thing in a day (something I regularly do with novels, but not so regularly with non-fiction).

    It’s compelling because it’s about difficult answers to shitty situations. Because it’s so honest. This is a man who succeeded beyond what most of us even dream of, and he’s open about the personal and physical cost to him along the way.

    I’m not particularly enamoured of the VC model, my aspirations are around freedom and building things that are cool or useful (ideally, both), not around running a Fortune 500 company. But I still found this book so interesting, and so insightful. Highly recommend. Read it. Meanwhile, I’ll read it again.

  • Book: A Year in High Heels

    Book: A Year in High Heels

    a year in high heels

    I can’t say I enjoyed A Year In High Heels by Camilla Morton (Amazon), in part because I never quite figured out what it was supposed to do – inspire to live a more fashionable, glamorous, cultural life? It was too shallow and wide-ranging, saying not very much about a wide variety of things. The only thing I really liked, is that for each month there was a “muse” – women who had had a meaningful or interesting life in some way. Peggy Guggenheim was a favourite, I must go to Venice and see her museum.

    Perhaps the book is just out of date – it felt more like I was reading a year’s worth of blog content, than a book. I would say, don’t bother, unless (maybe) you live in London and are looking for a fix of cultural recommendations – although I’m sure there are other (more up to date!) sources.

  • Stand Out

    Stand Out

    StandoutOver the weekend, I finished reading Marcus Buckingham’s Stand Out (Amazon). Similar to StrengthsFinder (Amazon) – which I blogged about recently), only instead of highlighting what your strengths are, it focuses on how others see you. I found it pretty interesting, and if you’re also interested in how your team perceives you, it’s probably worth taking. StrengthsFinder has more practical ways to capitalize and build on your strengths, and I’m not entirely sure what my takeaways are here. I think they complement each other.

    There are 9 “types”, top two combine to give your profile. Order of mine is:

    1. PIONEER: You see the world as a friendly place where, around every corner, good things will happen. Your distinctive power starts with your optimism in the face of uncertainty.
    2. INFLUENCER: You engage people directly and convince them to act. Your power is your persuasion.
    3. CONNECTOR: You are a catalyst. Your power lies in your craving to put two things together to make something bigger than it is now.
    4. ADVISOR: You are a practical, concrete thinker who is at your most powerful when reacting to and solving other people’s problems.
    5. PROVIDER: You sense other people’s feelings and you feel compelled to recognize these feelings, give them a voice and act on them.
    6. CREATOR: You make sense of the world, pulling it apart, seeing a better configuration, and creating it.
    7. EQUALIZER: You are a level-headed person whose power comes from keeping the world in balance, ethically and practically.
    8. STIMULATOR: You are the host of other people’s emotions. You feel responsible for them, for turning them around, for elevating them.
    9. TEACHER: You are thrilled by the potential you see in each person. Your power comes from learning how to unleash it.
    Interesting that the first one has me optimistic in the face of uncertainty, when two people have lately asked me to be more positive… perhaps things are insufficiently uncertain.
    It expands your top to themes, combines them, and gives you your greatest value you bring to a team.

    You keep innovation high on the agenda, challenging us to create the exceptional.

    Pioneer – “What’s new?”

    You begin by asking, “What’s new?” You are, by nature, an explorer, excited by things you haven’t seen before, people you haven’t yet met. Whereas others are intimidated by the unfamiliar, you are intrigued by it. It fires your curiosity and heightens your senses–you are smarter and more perceptive when you’re doing something you’ve never done before. With ambiguity comes risk, and you welcome this. Instinctively you know you are a resourceful person, and since you enjoy calling upon this aspect of yourself, you actively seek out situations where there is no beaten path, where it’s up to you to figure out how to keep moving forward. You sense that your appetite for the unknown might be an attempt to fill a void, and some days you wonder what you are trying to prove to yourself. But mostly you leave the questioning and the analyzing to others, and revel in your pioneering nature. You are at your best when you ask a question no one has asked, try a technique no one has tried, feel an experience few have felt. We need you at your best. You lead us into the undiscovered country.

    Influencer – “How can I move you to act?”

    You begin by asking, “How can I move you to act?” In virtually every situation, your eye goes to the outcome. Whether you are in a long meeting at work, helping a colleague get his work done, or talking a friend off a ledge, you measure your success by your ability to persuade the other person to do something he didn’t necessarily intend to do. You may do this by the force of your arguments, your charm, or your ability to outwit him, or perhaps by some combination of all of these, but, regardless of your method, what really matters to you is moving the other person to action. Why? Partly because you see where things will lead if the other person doesn’t act, and partly because you are instinctively aware of momentum and so become frustrated when you bump into someone who slows your momentum down. But mostly because you just can’t help it. It’s simply fun for you to influence people’s behavior through the power of your personality. It’s challenging and mysterious and thrilling, and, in the end, of course, it makes good things happen.

    Pioneer + Influencer

    You bring movement and momentum to any team.

    That cartoon of the penguin in the Hawaiian shirt, standing among hundreds of penguins, singing out, “I gotta be me!”? You can relate. You are usually the first on the block to own the newest toy or gadget and you love to tell the stories of how you got it, how it works, how it’s going to revolutionize… everything. As soon as everyone starts buying what you’re selling, however, you’re on the waiting list for version 2.0. You revel in introducing ideas that create a furl in someone’s brow. If you see a skeptical, quizzical look in their eyes, you know you’ve hooked one. You don’t like to rally behind anything obvious or conventional. If everyone else is doing it, it pains you to toe that line. In fact, you will swim against the tide for the simple joy of seeing if you can get anyone to swim with you.