Tag: public speaking

  • Returning To The Stage… After Harrassment

    Returning To The Stage… After Harrassment

    I stopped public speaking at the end of 2011. And, 6 months into 2012 I finally wrote about why. I wrote about being more intentional with my time, wanting to focus on more technical talks, and – in the vaguest terms, not really calling it what it was – about being harassed on Twitter as…

  • Presenting Gives Me Nightmares, but I Still Do It: Here’s How

    Presenting Gives Me Nightmares, but I Still Do It: Here’s How

    I get very nervous presenting, although it’s something I do relatively often. This is not out of enthusiasm for getting up on stage, but rather because I find myself in the position of being the least unwilling engineer. After my last presentation I was told that I didn’t need to be nervous, because I was…

  • Why I Cut Down On Public Speaking

    Why I Cut Down On Public Speaking

    Last year, I gave a lot of talks. I averaged about one a month, but it wasn’t spread out evenly. In October, I gave four talks. And then I stopped, and since then I’ve been putting off talks I intended to say yes to, or just outright saying no (I know, unlike me). There were…

  • Post-Grad Rehab: September/October

    In September, I challenged myself to say no. And so – I didn’t take a trip. I set boundaries. Yes, I will do the thing I agreed to, no, you can’t change it about on me like that. After reflection, my boyfriend and I decided that now wasn’t a good time to move in together.…